October 28th, 2008 - Shane-77540 said:
Well my mom left the convent for my dad, who converted because he truly wanted to be a Catholic. Their story redefines the whole question for me. I'm considering becoming a Deacon, and would be interested in becoming a priest if they were allowed to marry. Ironically I joined this site because I would want to find someone supportive of my possible vocation as a Deacon because it would be her choice too.
October 25th, 2008 - Belinda-268863 said:
I do not believe it to be positive or negative. I am attracted to someone who is becoming a Franciscan and possible deacon. This prevents me from truly getting to know this person because there is a deliberate distant from he and I . I respect that if this is something God is calling him to do then that is what is best.
October 21st, 2008 - Brenda-379824 said:
I to thought I had a vocation, but it wasn't ment to be and I still have my relationship with God. When I first thought
to be a nun, I want to follow in St. Therese foot steps.
But the nun's told me to live life and have a relationship before I decide. Now it's to late for me to be a Carmelite nun.
October 17th, 2008 - Kathy-74171 said:
The question was "Does vocation discernment have a positive or negative effect on your interest in someone?" And in my opinion getting to know someone is getting to know them and if they are truly called by GOD to become a priest then they will; and if we are ment to be together they we will.
October 14th, 2008 - Michelle-176368 said:
Personally I love having friends. I don't think it's healthy to shun others because I only care to meet the love of my life. Engaging in a friendship with someone who's discerning may just be insighful in one's own personal discernment, regaurding any vocation.