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April 19th, 2013 - Ed-953538 said:

Dishonesty in any way. I can foregive anything, but just be candid.

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March 22nd, 2013 - Kim-922832 said:

Addictive habits, such as compulsive gambling, porn addiction, alcoholism or drug addiction, illegal or prescription.

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February 2nd, 2013 - Tess-922428 said:

Disrespect, abuse of any kind and dishonesty.

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April 12th, 2012 - Veronique-771989 said:

Dishonesty, abuse, and gross negligence! not going there again, ever!

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December 11th, 2011 - Maureen-800001 said:

Tolerate? I won't enter into a marriage thinking I'll have to "tolerate" my husband. Yikes! Seek God's will, unceasingly, and do it.

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September 14th, 2011 - Rebecca-767242 said:

Dishonesty seems to be the deal breaker, that is if you are AWARE of it. But a person who is apathetic cannot contribute to a mutual dedication to growing closer to their spouse or to the Lord.

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August 22nd, 2011 - Brian-758969 said:

I tolerated a lot, and forgave infidelity once. But when it happened again, it was time for her to leave.

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May 26th, 2011 - Barbara-723972 said:

Dishonesty and infidelity. They definatelly fall in the same category as lying in my opinion.

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May 4th, 2011 - Kenneth-719159 said:

The one thing I could not tolerate would be infidelity

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March 16th, 2011 - Gene-529847 said:

Germaphobia

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April 6th, 2010 - Bradley-266389 said:

I am working on accepting and loving people who say one thing and do another.

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January 14th, 2010 - Marty-244468 said:

lack of a sense of humor

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December 8th, 2009 - Darin-515663 said:

Who the ____ likes a liar?????

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January 10th, 2009 - Judith-382730 said:

Dishonesty leads to a lack of trust--and without trust a relationship is doomed.

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January 7th, 2009 - Joe-265251 said:

but would anyone really date someone who they know is apathetic to begin with? Dishonesty can creep into a relationship making it a bigger deal... just my thoughts

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January 5th, 2009 - Eric-48321 said:

I don't like any of these... a troubled past can be overcome, so thats the least of my worries. The others are all trouble areas. I didn't vote for any.

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January 5th, 2009 - Evelyn-307050 said:

DISHONESTY IS THE #1 I HATE MOST. If one person is being dishonest in the relationship, all the troubles will come along.

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January 4th, 2009 - Jennifer-309886 said:

'Dishonesty' has got to be the worst thing listed (but if 'anger management problems' include violence, then that would have to come first). I cannot abide dishonesty- if I discovered that someone was I dating was being dishonest with me, they might very well drive me to having anger management problems!

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January 4th, 2009 - Tony-134838 said:

Dishonesty is the #1 deal breaker for me. Anger problems is a close second. In the end, though, every choice on this list would not be a welcomed addition to a relationship. Am I looking for perfection?!?

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January 3rd, 2009 - Kimberly-282990 said:

We're all human and we each have our strengths / weaknesses ... like laziness, talking too much, being moody. But to me being intentionally dishonest is a deal-breaker without question.

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January 1st, 2009 - Rob-399110 said:

A solid structure cannot be built on a crumbled foundation. W/O honesty and trust all efforts at collaboration on serious issues are futile.

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January 1st, 2009 - Donnie-397050 said:

I only see a couple here that aren't total deal breakers.

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December 23rd, 2008 - Earl-116445 said:

I feel that dishonesty is a definite "red flag." Without total honesty and communication, it is a recipe for failure and one not totally committed to ones' self and the relationship.

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December 18th, 2008 - Dana-15463 said:

My "can't stand" in a potential husband is drinking.

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December 14th, 2008 - Cathy-393274 said:

Dishonesty and anger management problems are the top two in terms of worst faults. Lack of a sense of humor is also pretty bad. You have to maintain a sense of humor in this life!

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December 14th, 2008 - Tom-352850 said:

I've never been married, but I would not want my spouse having anger management problems with our children. NO NO.

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December 6th, 2008 - MaryBeth-382377 said:

Dishonesty -- it is essential that you can trust your spouse. Lack of communication is another big one -- you need to be able to do this together for a great marriage. Also, being able to control your anger is important.

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December 4th, 2008 - Maria-304891 said:

Like I used to tell my ex-boyfriend" I can forgive you for any wrong thing that you do--just be honest and upfront about them with me! It only makes things worse when you hide or lie about your mistakes/faults. If I can't trust my spouse to tell me the truth, how will I know I really know him?

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December 3rd, 2008 - Brian-21892 said:

Although there are many levels of 'dishonesty', trust is a big deal for me. Of course one has to be 'trustworthy', but with trust, the other issues can me managed. Else, the relationship lacks integrity, and inherently dishonest.

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November 24th, 2008 - Sandra-202758 said:

How do you select the lesser of seven evils.

This list has at least three of the seven deadly sins.

Greed --debts

Sloth --laziness

Wrath --anger problems

Scripture also says lying is a mortal sin.

So, given the choices, I don't see how anyone could choose. Yikes!

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November 23rd, 2008 - Carmen-73121 said:

I believe that lack of communication will apply best as to take care of any of the "red flags". When two speak up about any issues, there will be a better understanding and a better decision can be made.

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November 23rd, 2008 - Stephanie-302804 said:

Justyne- I disagree, there are plenty of us with less than perfect pasts, so I don't consider that option to be a red flag.

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November 21st, 2008 - Emanuela-15984 said:

Since there is no "lie" as an answer I'd say that dishonesty is in the same root...

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November 20th, 2008 - John-59597 said:

I was actually thinking about "All of the above," but dishonesty takes it.

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November 19th, 2008 - Christopher-334827 said:

I agree dishonesty is awful but just imagine trying to explain your feelings to someone who is also apathetic.

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