January 6th, 2009 - Jon-284646 said:
I believe the most important option was not listed, which is:
The person did not compliment the relationship. In other words, they just weren't the right person. I've never had any of the listed superficial reasons listed as the reason a relationship ended.
January 5th, 2009 - Eric-48321 said:
Not everyone today is marriage material. There is too much selfishness and vanity in this world. Its gotten bad. It seems to be more about having a vacation home or big house or retirement package and not about living a good life. Its about what you can give materially rather than what you are as a person.
January 5th, 2009 - Deejai -396500 said:
My ex-fiance lied about who he was during the first half of our relationship because he was afraid I would not like the "real him". Well guess what, I didn't and I left him. Just goes to show that if you lie to someone that you say you love and then turn around and show your real self, then it was all just a waste of time and effort. I fell in love with the person I met, he changed into someone else soon-after that I didn't end up loving.
December 28th, 2008 - Lisa-385078 said:
My breakups were because of my religion, I wasn't able to find a practicing Catholic. When I was younger, I thought they would come back to the church or I would be able to continue practicing my faith even if they didn't. I was never comfortable with that....I want someone to share that faith with
December 22nd, 2008 - Rod-34918 said:
Love this question despite me being nonactive in the CM fora.
The last meaningful relationship I had was about five years ago, a LDR that lasted about 8 months and involved travelling between Dallas and Memphis. Several factors contributed to our discontinuance with our relationship, mainly eldercare issues with my father. While it was painful to part from her, I really did care for her, it was the right thing to do. Since then, and having been involved in faith and fun through the CM events, God did make a way to comfort and strengthen me during those times. Since then I've formed and developed friendships through CM that will last a lifetime. Me finding love? Not yet. Too much to do still.