August 1st, 2013 - Judy-995913 said:
Love Valentine's Day if it's about appreciation for one another and a sincere 'I love you.' It is an opportunity for shared quality time; just expecting a grand gift is selfish and shallow. If I'm not important to someone the other 364 days, then Valentine's Day won't make a difference.
November 24th, 2011 - LillianTeresa-528523 said:
Valentine's Day was a day to commemorate the martyrdom of numerous ancients named Valentine. As we celebrate it today, it is the creation of clever entreupeneurs to separate us from our money. It would mean more to receive a gift from a friend or spouse without prompting by marketers.
February 17th, 2011 - Claire-638639 said:
I met my husband on February 15, 1997 and lost him on February 11, 11 years later and his funeral was on February 15. That was three years ago and the whole Valentine thing just brings my loss back to me. I am not sure that I will ever enjoy Valentine's day again.
February 13th, 2011 - Vivian-35531 said:
I have been a member for 6 years - was so much hoping to find a catholic person who is loving , nice, sharing and caring, put GOd first- as in Egypt very few catholics even exists- but till now didn't find him- so stooped from paying.. and became a free member.. yet if someone is really smart, and keen to talk to me, can easily get connected from my profile!
February 13th, 2011 - Christina-107357 said:
Valentine's Day does give singles a reason to go out and mingle. Perhaps, it should be a single's day, not a couples' day. Couples should regularly share expressions of love. Valentine's Day isn't and shouldn't be necessary for them...if they're in a real loving relationship. For couples, they can and should do the "Valentine's Day" thing any day of the year. Now wouldn't THAT be fun?! :) Peace and Love, Chris JMJ
February 3rd, 2011 - Kevin-550074 said:
I don't feel anything about Valentine's Day. It funny, in elementary school we had to write a short essay on our favorite holiday and I chose Valentine's Day. I remember my paper won some kind of award (the kind where I went up on stage during an assembly) but I don't remember my thesis or any of my arguments. If I ever find it, I'll post it.
February 1st, 2011 - Jim-5730 said:
And right after I typed that up, an ad popped up on the right hand side of the page for Buca di Beppo, "Reserve Now". Make that reservation early or else be left out in the cold. Is it really about romance? Or is it about increased profits for restaurants, flower shops, jewelry stores, hotels, etc., etc., etc.... And all at the expense of Jim. Tisk, tisk... Shame on you America. This year, don't celebrate fake/forced "romance". Show 'em who's boss and celebrate Jim instead. Or my niece Brianna who shares my b-day. She's great! You'd like her. Even if you don't like Jim, nobody could object to celebrating Brianna's b-day instead of V-day, right?
February 1st, 2011 - Jim-5730 said:
Background on my answer, that's my b-day. And let's face facts, the current celebration of V-day is entirely centered on special treatment for the women. In addition to this, good luck being able to go out for dinner on my b-day because all the restaurants are all backed up with mostly parties of 2, who occupy the table FAR longer than normal. And the most important of all is all the emphasis that's placed on this one day that men are basically forced into. In what alternate universe is that "romantic". Do women really find forced behavior to be romantic? Is it really such a great thing when a guy tries to be romantic because Hallmark says so or because all the cool kids are doing it? I think not. In a nutshell, people would be MUCH better off by celebrating my birthday rather than some made up, forced attempt at a distorted vision of "romance". Make a big fuss over that special someone spontaneously and repeatedly throughout the year. Release the shackles of paying 4x the normal price for flowers or being told you have to make dinner reservations 2 months in advance. Don't play their game. Play mine instead. :)