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March 2nd, 2012 - Amanda-818043 said:

Not too cool really. It`s like Saying, I want you`re friend, but not you. That would definitely hurt a person`s feelings.

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February 10th, 2012 - Natalia-815791 said:

Of course no, unfairly, and you can hurt someone's feelings.

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December 15th, 2011 - Deborah-790049 said:

not sure

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December 13th, 2011 - Eugene-772245 said:

Its ok with me. Its the same for me as asking, who is your friend n so forth. I don't think its bad to inquire about anyone since am seeing them for the first time and one has to start from somewhere.

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November 21st, 2011 - Denise-775778 said:

No way- Very rude!

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November 18th, 2011 - Matt-784001 said:

Seems like it would be bad form / tacky to me. By that I mean, I wouldn't do it, but who am I to judge. Easy solution: only put photos of yourself!

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November 11th, 2011 - Stefann-768217 said:

Sure, why not, in a manner that does not hurt the other person.

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October 18th, 2011 - Peter-449116 said:

Sure if you're an insensitive jerk, but it would be very bad form.

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October 1st, 2011 - Kathy-355103 said:

In most cases---no. It can be very hurtful. Especially if the person is always being asked about this attractive friend. People try to be discreet, but you can usually figure it out when it happens over and over again!! I had an attractive friend in the same Catholic singles groups with me for years--and guys were always asking me about her. Not easy to deal with that, though I tried to act like it didn't bother me! She got married a few years ago though. Actually--my advice would be to not have friends in your pictures on a dating site!! LOL! In some rare cases it might be okay to ask about a friend in someone's pictures---like when one person is already dating someone, or when there is something very obvious that would keep you and the main person in the picture from being a good match anyway (one guy here mentioned the height discrepancy. I am very tall---so wouldn't mind a short guy asking about a short friend of mine.)

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August 18th, 2011 - Maureen-694329 said:

No that would be "tacky"

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August 17th, 2011 - Auree-744223 said:

no not at tall

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August 17th, 2011 - Luke-548769 said:

I guess it really depends on how the question is posed, and who it is you're contacting. If the person is someone you know well, then you'll know whether or not such a question would be permissible.

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August 16th, 2011 - Tracy-666314 said:

not so much inappropriate as rude. i think it would be rude.

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August 15th, 2011 - Dominic-86853 said:

I think it's OK. Let's say that they aren't a match, then why not? For example, I'm 5'8" and what if the gal is 5'11"? There's NO way that I'm a match for her and probably she wouldn't make sense for me. I don't see the harm in asking about a friend. After all, The Lord helps those who help themselves. The thought might not occur to someone, so a little nudge shouldn't be offensive...OK, so with that in mind any gals (that's is if you aren't interested... or guys) in this message chain have a girl friend for me? :)

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August 15th, 2011 - Jeremy-751237 said:

no it is not appropriate

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August 14th, 2011 - Rodrigo-755559 said:

well there is not easy so i think is not good

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August 13th, 2011 - Rodrigo-755559 said:

is not good

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August 12th, 2011 - Richard-752179 said:

rull # ! The womans never wrong even when your right....so unless she tellsyou a little bit about the person - even their name never ask because the girl in the picture is hot and you board with your woman. Stay one woman at a time.

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August 10th, 2011 - Lucia-754345 said:

No

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August 9th, 2011 - Janice-699373 said:

No

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August 9th, 2011 - Sally-750522 said:

Beyond tacky in my opinion.

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August 8th, 2011 - Joel-274521 said:

what does this question even mean?

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August 3rd, 2011 - Christian-751776 said:

no way

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August 1st, 2011 - Nancy-749478 said:

No, I do not believe this is a proper thing to do. I would not like it if it involved me, nor would I want to discuss anyone with someone else.

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August 1st, 2011 - Andy-750703 said:

Absolutely not. It wold be a violation of trust, unless the owner of the pictures so states, or, if asked about it, he/she says YES.

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July 31st, 2011 - Sharlene-507105 said:

It is fine with me. I think it is a great idea.

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July 28th, 2011 - Joyce-723865 said:

tacky

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July 23rd, 2011 - Richard-143340 said:

Wow. Talk about the Mother of all tactical Faux Pas. $100 bucks awarded to the brazen individual who could pull this one off!

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July 23rd, 2011 - Timothy-379498 said:

I agree with you Antonio, I can not imagine ever doing that. It would show not only an utter lack of class and respect but would also be incredibly mean and degrading.

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July 19th, 2011 - Therese-729865 said:

Tacky tacky tacky

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July 4th, 2011 - Hilda-184281 said:

My answer for the this question is MAYBE, but is not one of the options :/ (who crafted this poll?). It all depends on the the context, on the relationship between you and the other (opposite gender) person. If you are just friends and totally honest andt clear about it, then "Sure why not".

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June 29th, 2011 - Joshua-629403 said:

I think I misread the question. I thought the question meant to ask about a friend in the photo who was the same gender as me... for example, "is that an ex in your picture, or just a friend."

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June 27th, 2011 - David-44807 said:

This has happen to me when a woman ask about my brother in the photo. It hurt me that she pass over me to ask me to ask my brother.

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June 23rd, 2011 - Ramona-652361 said:

No, I don't think that it's ok.............. but I've wanted to!

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June 21st, 2011 - Diane-323361 said:

I would say no. I've had that happen to me, where someone contacted me because I had an attractive friend. It actually made me feel like I was less than my friend. Also he had no idea she was not Catholic and actually engaged, he was basing his interest solely on her looks, nothing into her personality. It was incredibly shallow.

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June 18th, 2011 - Miguel-9560 said:

If people believe this kind of thing ins't appropriate, then why do they insist on posting pictures with other people on a dating site?

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June 15th, 2011 - Jeremy-588086 said:

God uses many ways to see His plan through. One never knows for sure where they'll meet his/her potential spouse.

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June 11th, 2011 - Mary-25961 said:

I have to agree with Donald - As long as the person you are contacting is not interested in you on a romantic level, why not. One never knows how you can meet someone.. Too many people get caught up in the box and that is why they haven't met someone yet. It is also a given that it is someone that is in your age group. I also am refererring to people who have a basic knowledge of the other through the forums or some contact has been previously made and not out of the blue.

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June 7th, 2011 - Art-304336 said:

Some of you are reading into the question and making all kinds of judgements and insinuations. The question was very simple, and it didn't say that that you were actually already in contact with the friend of the romantic interest. If I have a single friend in a picture with me and someone is interested in him/her, it would be a wonderful for me to get them together, and who knows, maybe they will get married and be happy. Unless I'm a jealous, self absorbed person..which I try not to be.

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May 27th, 2011 - Jonathan-612626 said:

I would say it's okay only If the person in question is not of the same age as the person's whose picture it is. I mean if you're 20-something and the person whose photo you're looking at is 50-something but the person you're asking about looks much closer to your age then I don't see why not. It might still be considered tacky though however.

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May 25th, 2011 - Stephanie-539445 said:

This is really tacky to do and I would never do it. But do yourself a favor and don't have any pictures of yourself with your good looking friend, brother, room mate, cousin, boss, etc. Keep all the attention on yourself! It's rough out there as it is.

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May 24th, 2011 - David-629572 said:

I have never done this and most likely never will, but I see no harm in it. If you are so terribly offended by someone expressing interest in one of your friends, relatives, etc., my advice would be to lighten up and get over yourself. Would you run off and pout if someone at a bar neglected to pay as much attention to you as to your friend? Finding the right match is not easy, as I am sure most of us are aware-- how about showing some selflessness and generosity and helping someone else in their search? Instead of being totally focused in on your own feelings and sensitivities.

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May 20th, 2011 - Joe-603209 said:

If you're trying to keep the focus on yourself, crop the friends out of photos. Only advice that I have for this.

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May 20th, 2011 - William-505707 said:

I would and I have asked complete strangers about a person in one or more of their photos, and I do so as I am seeking information on my Genealogy, but that is my search, and I agree with Antonio, if all you want is a date, then the request would be wrong.

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