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August 30th, 2014 - Maria-1124380 said:

Conversation is probably the most important part of a first date. Chatting over a couple of drinks will ensure the mood is relaxed and will help to dispel any inevitable first date nerves. Choose a gastropub with bags of atmosphere, so you don't feel compelled to fill every break in conversation yourself -- the last thing you want is to choose a silent place.

The other great thing about going for drinks is that the date is casually open ended -- you can easily make an excuse to keep it short if the spark just isn't there, or can go on for dinner somewhere else if you both don't want the date to end.

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August 18th, 2014 - Roxanne-1122458 said:

Lunch would be nice.

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June 28th, 2014 - Mary-1105942 said:

Skydiving. It should be exciting. Base jumping would be okay too.

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May 27th, 2014 - David-1092070 said:

the ideal first date should first be comfortable, a relaxed atmosphere lunch, dinner,,coffee or a drink,,where you can have conversation,,get to know eachother,,taking off towards a second,third ,date.. a relationship,a friendship a couple! a meaning future!

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May 4th, 2014 - Cheryl-1159 said:

I think meeting for a drink or lunch is a good way to get to know someone at first without it being considered a date. Lunch to me is confusing because I would classify that as friends until further defined. It is helpful to know it is a date. An ideal date is where things are really taking off toward a potential relationship with a future, conversation is good and there is a connection. Anywhere...probably starts with dinner.

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May 3rd, 2014 - Monica-1078830 said:

Have a ice cream while walking on the beach or watching the sunset! Never done it but would like too!

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January 12th, 2014 - Debbie-1037125 said:

A sporting event like a baseball game.

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June 18th, 2013 - JudithAnn-980784 said:

Lunch is preferred

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May 30th, 2013 - Benedicta-886241 said:

Sunday Mass and then going to have some lunch or coffee.

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May 16th, 2013 - David-643870 said:

Meet over a beverage. First actual date - a very nice dinner and an evening walk.

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May 8th, 2013 - FloviaOlivia-879285 said:

lunch.dinner and a movie.

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April 23rd, 2013 - Robert-964870 said:

coffee and go walking in the park

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April 22nd, 2013 - Jamie-964072 said:

Mass! And then coffee or something afterwards.

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April 18th, 2013 - Catherine-912447 said:

I guess more than the venue or occasion, an ideal first date for me is any time and any where I get to share a real connection with the person I'm spending that time with. That could be anywhere... even stranded in an elevator.

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April 16th, 2013 - Lamont-961776 said:

I would have to say hanging out at a big coffee shop because it is relaxing and it is easy to be yourself.

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April 13th, 2013 - Catherine-798892 said:

Write me a letter. Send me quotations or poems that are shaping your life and the lives of others....

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April 9th, 2013 - Ivan-936776 said:

Dinner and coversation

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April 6th, 2013 - Lois-470978 said:

Dinner indicates a man is interested in romance/ seriously at least considering. It also affords the opportunity to get to know one another in an intimate atmosphere. Movies with coffee afterwards gives a great opportunity to discuss the film.

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March 26th, 2013 - Magdalene-956692 said:

I like cultural events or something silly like miniature golf...it can be a lot of fun...and it makes it easier to have the built in conversations starts for shy people (like me!!)

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March 24th, 2013 - Peter-650220 said:

Coffee shop

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March 18th, 2013 - Ryan-723415 said:

I would say dinner and a movie at Alamo Drafthouse

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March 10th, 2013 - Ashley-744954 said:

A sporting event would be awesome! it would be fun and.. leave room for conversation.

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March 8th, 2013 - Justin-949667 said:

Probably a round of golf? Stupid information bets for each hole, lol. Maybe snow or waterskiing. Me personally I like being in life. A person can talk and get to no a person better in more of a real atmosphere.

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March 2nd, 2013 - Yolanda-935017 said:

lunch

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February 13th, 2013 - Eleanor-944041 said:

Dinner and conversation

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February 12th, 2013 - SeJin-868712 said:

lunch & sporting event will be fun!!

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February 5th, 2013 - Lea-938919 said:

LUNCH in a public place where both of you can have solid conversations and talk comfortably, having more time getting to know each other. If the two of you clicks and get interested with each other you may develop some bonding. If there is a chemistry or both feel some emotional connection, you will have more time together and may want to go for a walk at the park or on the beach, or maybe go to a dinner or a movie. If everything go in the right direction, then its well worth investment of time and a relationship could go further. Don't be too serious, add some good sense of humor...it helps!

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January 28th, 2013 - Jennifer-939674 said:

Coffee is always a safe bet....

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January 25th, 2013 - Jane-933948 said:

Lunch then talking is relaxed and during the day.....pray before the meal

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January 19th, 2013 - Anna-937005 said:

Lunch so that we can have more time together...

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January 6th, 2013 - Doreen-165926 said:

Something not to long but not to short.. mybe coffee..it, can be short if things don't click... like the guy that gave me way too much private information about stuff that not one no needs to know...or a woman or man that talks about previous relationships or his ex-wife. But truely if things are going good you can drinking more coffee or bottle water. One time I met a fellow and we talked and laughted for hours.

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December 30th, 2012 - Michael-855491 said:

lunch and coffee is quite good enough..

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December 29th, 2012 - Theresa-918635 said:

We should meet some where you can talk about each other, Coffee Cafe

would be nice, Then you can take it from there. And it should be in the day time>Also i would rather get there by my self.For the ist time.

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December 9th, 2012 - Meg-920823 said:

Adoration or Mass and then a nice quiet dinner.

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December 4th, 2012 - Margaret-920708 said:

Coffee place

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December 2nd, 2012 - Edel-677791 said:

Coffee

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November 28th, 2012 - Meg-920823 said:

Coffee

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November 23rd, 2012 - Glenda-916189 said:

coffee/lunch/dinner in a common place where you both can talk without feeling uncomfortable..

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November 14th, 2012 - Brandon-917789 said:

The firstdate is not only a first impression, its one of the most memorable dates. If you do something funr or witty like play laser tag, keroke or wear something weird like a clown nose. This helps break the ice. Plus you can bring to back or reintroduce it for a romantic twist on an annivesary orsomething. ;)

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November 9th, 2012 - Alex-619163 said:

The ideal first date is when you know you both really like each other and want to make a special first date. Now days it seems people are not always available or seem insurance or uninterested in a relationship, mostly women because that's the only sex I like to invite out. So ideal first date would be a well worth investment of time and money!

However, because of the beginning and uninterested parties a simple coffee will do until the other person is willing to show you she/he is willing to get to know you. If the sign is not there that person is interested in you then I would say lunch and dinner are okey as long as that person doesn't mind going Dutch on that first and last date!!!!

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November 1st, 2012 - Donnie-397050 said:

Lunch is best. Most thinking adults can pretty well sort it out in an hour.

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October 28th, 2012 - MaryAnn-528089 said:

I say meet for a stock car race then mass that sunday

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October 25th, 2012 - Justin-911741 said:

I agree with Mass, then maybe dinner (I usually go to the evening masses)

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October 24th, 2012 - Jacinta-80503 said:

Mass/Adoration is a good start, followed by a lunch.

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October 12th, 2012 - Philip-389512 said:

Mass is a good way to start any day, then light lunch , then a walk in the park. Second date can be a hike in the forest or see a waterfall. About the third date, I'd like to share a meal that we prepared together and then go out to a music hall.

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October 7th, 2012 - Donna-902362 said:

Meet for lunch! If you are a real Christian Catholic. ..you will be happy to practice the following suggestions. Before you eat, pray! Tell/ask your date, Pray silently or aloud together. For breakers start talking about the food you are eating, then find something to talk about that is of interest to you both. {not passed relationships in detail} Keep it simple, don't be to serious. Talk about an activity that you would like do together. After this, if the sparks are flying... go do it now, if possible.. If a fire has started plan a nice dinner and a movie/dance etc. ,that you b o t h enjoy. FIRST pray before you do all this, praying to is such a plus because right at the start you will become spiritually connected {and protected, laugh out loud now !!!} I find this to be so true. It is good to act out in the spirit. Don't forget to take along your best and biggest smile and sense of humor too. God bless us all, in Jesus name I pray. {No they don't call me St. Donn yet !}

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October 6th, 2012 - Christina-107357 said:

A mini-adventure would be excellent, just like Peter is describing. It lets you get to know something more about the person, and it can bond you if you turn out to be interested in the person. Then dinner. Go for a walk/hike in a gorgeous park (if its warm out, walk along a beach), wall climbing (in a safe environment since i'm not a pro at it) or volunteering building someone's home, for example. Or out to dinner and then for a waltz (seriously, waltzing is awesome if a guy knows how to lead). Something active and then communicative in the same date.

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October 5th, 2012 - Patrick-903964 said:

Dinner and Movie

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October 4th, 2012 - Peter-539354 said:

A real hike (with dog(s)) up a mountain, climbing (roped) or bouldering, some other outdoor activity, a night at Dave & Busters - both followed by eating someplace afterward would be a plus. Something to do besides sit across from a table trying to evaluate whether the conversation is going well and effectively trying to get the point where you would want to go out and actually do something. No. Do something first, like you are friends who just met, because if everything goes perfect at lunch or whatever you are going to spend a lot more having adventures together and a lot less time looking at each other over a table. Start with a bonding experience.

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October 2nd, 2012 - Stephen-902841 said:

Dinner & movie

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October 2nd, 2012 - Stephen-902841 said:

Dinner & movie

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September 30th, 2012 - Sheila-815786 said:

I think a coffee date for the first time is appropriate.

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September 26th, 2012 - Jacob-652100 said:

Jhen has a pretty profile picture.

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September 26th, 2012 - Jacob-652100 said:

My ideal first date is dinner, movie, drinks at a bar, short talk, and a kiss from a pretty girl.

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September 24th, 2012 - Mary-440343 said:

I prefer lunch somewhere public and affordable- like Applebees, O Gradys, some small cafe that the guy prefers in his area although I have some in mind locally.

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September 23rd, 2012 - Jhen-854864 said:

Sporting events hahaha :)

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September 20th, 2012 - Marcus-886263 said:

lol i guess im not the majority but hey im honest lol

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