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September 17th, 2014 - John-832768 said:

My experience has been that girls are far to busy talking to (or texting) each other to care about having a relationship with a guy.

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September 14th, 2014 - Adam-1082780 said:

Women see me as "just a friend"

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August 24th, 2014 - Betsie-705621 said:

I almost always ask God for signs on the men I am seeing, if they are who God wants for me. Also, I do believe there are good men out there and I don't like the looking around so I don't want to appear desperate.

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August 15th, 2014 - Eric-941851 said:

I believe my whole problem is that I possess bad social skills even to the point where finding the self esteem to engage in the initial introduction.

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July 4th, 2014 - Elizabeth-1080450 said:

I've always dated the guys who lacked in morals. I thought that if my beliefs and morals were laid out on the table before we dated it would be okay. Errrrrrnt. That was a total wrong approach. I haven't dated a guy in almost three years bc I haven't met a guy where our personalities clicked and where we both challenge each other in our faith. Joining this website has opened my mind to a whole new world where I can meet men with my same morals.. Which is different and its super exciting!!

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June 30th, 2014 - Catherine-1085370 said:

I lack the self-esteem

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June 16th, 2014 - Christa-366799 said:

There are a lot of men out there who don't have good morals and values. Esp being catholic and practicing. I'm not asking for an angel! But today's day it's hard to meet a nice guy. Just not Gods timing, but his timing is best! :)

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June 5th, 2014 - David-1092070 said:

how about why I don't want to be single,and why I WANT TO CONNECT! here's a short story,,,there was a girl,she ask,a boy if she was pretty,,he said NO! she then asked him if he wanted to be with her,,he said NO!,,she then ask if he would cry if she walked away,,he said NO! she had heard enough she needed to leave,,as she walked away he grabbed her arm and told her to stay,he said you are not pretty,you are very beautiful,,and I don't just want to be with you, I want to be with you NOW and FOREVER! and I would not cry if you walked away I would die! most of us have seen the romantic comdey YOU'VE GOT MAIL! the happy ending the couple connecting staying connected,,sharing,,caring , trusting, with the joy of can't wait to see that special one,,and the pain when you don't,not to mention the worry if something happens to that special one,the saying if you are crying because your ideal match hurt you,,cheated on you,or just keeps letting you down,but if you cry because they are crying are hurting when they are,,well thats love and connecting and the laughing and happiness part must be great,,So thats love and not being single,,so if you want those or some of those words above,and feeling,,keep trying to connect and find that ideal match,and praying for it can't hurt!

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June 3rd, 2014 - David-1092070 said:

well I am not connecting with the ladies,that I could really go for,,it seems they won't give me achance,like on this site I am not hearing from the one's I am interested in,,ANYWAY I keep trying,,it does get harder as we get older,,,a funny thing on all most all these sites,,everyone seems to know what makes a great ideal relationship and what makes it last,,but there all still online looking and browseing,,playing the game,,me personally all you can do is keep trying,,marraige and true love is a blessing!

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May 30th, 2014 - Maria-1082775 said:

The demands of earning a living crowded out social time. Child care does the same. And after being married for many years, I didn't know any singles and getting back into "circulation" was dificult because I would not hang around in bars.Also, I knew that if I remarried after divorce, I would be excluded from Holy Communion, and that bothered me a lot. Sex without marriage was definitely something I would not even consider, and the men I dated all disappeared when they saw I would not change.

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April 25th, 2014 - Joan-1085686 said:

A couple of very important things have kept me from dating: I only just received an Annulment (3 weeks ago) and I had lots of healing to do. I was not available or interested...

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April 22nd, 2014 - Daniel-257 said:

Just wasn't satisfied with the girlfriends and fiances so far. And the couple of girlfriends that I really wanted just weren't available.

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April 20th, 2014 - Delia-1056688 said:

...And I think it's been worthy!

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April 20th, 2014 - Delia-1056688 said:

I've had some opportunities to get married that I rejected knowing he wasn't the right one for me.I've been waiting for the right one and I'm positive the right one is waiting for me and that we are closer and closer ...Oooh my God! :-)

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April 10th, 2014 - Alicia-551363 said:

God hasn't introduced me to him yet. I haven't been in a relationship in years, but the last guy I dated, I had to break up with him because he was not catholic. We dated about three and a half years and we started talking marriage and children, but when he said that religion wasn't an option, I had to break it off. I really thought that he may open his eyes to God if there was a serious future ahead of us, but that wasn't the case.

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April 2nd, 2014 - Brittany-1071387 said:

Choosing to date those who do not share in my beliefs

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March 29th, 2014 - Elizabeth-1075962 said:

I've been alone for over 20 yrs, I've just now realized and learned on the back page of CM

I could meet a nice Catholic man. A man who thinks I'm great and excepts me as I am. I really want God to help me.

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March 13th, 2014 - Sharon-940751 said:

I threw myself into work, and became so used to being on my own, that I never got around to seriously looking or putting myself out there to be seen.

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February 24th, 2014 - Justin-1061275 said:

God has not introduced me yet

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January 20th, 2014 - Patricia-846886 said:

I'm 100% orthodox in my Catholic faith & couldn't possibly lower my standards or values for any man . I am a divorced (yet annulled) Catholic so men who are widowed aren't interesting in getting to know me. There's definitely a stigma against divorcees. Of course my age is a huge factor and the majority of men my age (67) prefer someone who's much younger. I would never consider marriage to someone who's more than 5 years older than me & that's for all the obvious reasons.

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November 2nd, 2013 - Edward-979093 said:

I took "The Best Come To Those Who Wait" to such an extreme that it seems too late

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October 30th, 2013 - Ted-999140 said:

I agree with Dan. :-/

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October 26th, 2013 - Shela-1019951 said:

priorities in life and not being afraid to wait because of the belief that God has a perfect plan for me..

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October 17th, 2013 - Hank-1011656 said:

My wife has passed away, so I guess that was fairly decisive as to my singlehood

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October 2nd, 2013 - BrendaLea-1008401 said:

I am still grieving the loss of my husband and am mostly looking for a friend. I will wait patiently for the man who is looking for his rib to find me.

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September 16th, 2013 - Andrea-1000510 said:

Im waiting for the right person maybe God has not introduce me to him yet. (for something I'm here!)

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September 13th, 2013 - Denise-1009349 said:

I am going to trust in our Lord that at his timing, and not my timing, that he will bring the right man to me. I am tired of being lonely but I am going to stay in faith and stay positive.

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August 16th, 2013 - Denise-963197 said:

Still waiting for the one that God will send to me.

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August 16th, 2013 - Angielica-988422 said:

I hope I could find him.

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August 14th, 2013 - Gail-958252 said:

Haven't found my prince charming yet.

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August 13th, 2013 - Anne-348574 said:

i think am in the wrong site ,, not many african men here at catholicmatch and many are far away and chances are the distance they view,, might be the challlenge. am getting tired of this site,, i dont know what to do

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July 14th, 2013 - Noela-808995 said:

men my age like women half my age.

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July 5th, 2013 - Colleen-90324 said:

God hasn't introduced me to him yet.

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May 13th, 2013 - Meghan-552834 said:

At first, I did not want to answer God (although I DO believe God ultimately leads us to the one we end up falling in love with and marrying); I wanted to say some other reason, but ALL of the other reasons are negative AS IF being single is a horrible thing! Consider this: can a person be single because she loves people and does not need to be dating one of those people at all times of her life? Dating happens when you make a special connection with someone, and if it does not work out, then the connection might turn into friendship or you can move on your way, happy that you tried. Single-ness is a positive thing! We all were born that way! God intended for it, and it is not without a good and beautiful purpose. That was just my initial thought.

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May 13th, 2013 - Dave-580593 said:

The bottom line is it's the numbers, the numbrs, the numbers! You have to be out pounding the pavement meeting people as much as possible. My experience is that 9 out of 10 attractive women I meet are already taken. But the more you meet in a year's time the more likely you'll be to find one that's available.

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May 8th, 2013 - Vivienne-926474 said:

I agree with Robert. God has not introduced you to her yet What? Our God is a loving God The right woman has been circulating before you over and over again but you are not clued in. If you fast, give alms, pray repent and in short remove all blockages you will see her clearly. Oh and you need to ACT decisively and courageously .

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May 7th, 2013 - Krystyn-883319 said:

To answer the question, I think that difficulty in meeting good Catholic men who have a holy boldness when it comes to dating & pursuing women is one reason for my single status, but patience is essential when we are on God's time & plan!!! However, I am a little disappointed with the negative tone in some of these comments. At the very least as Catholics we should be charitable & encourage each other to embrace our faith. Men - take courage & rise to the occasion. God has great plans for you to be wonderful husbands & fathers, but you need to do your part -- don't be afraid. Pursue holy women. Trust in God & LEAP into His plan for your life. Women, be supportive of the Catholic men in your life, & be open to men who pursue you. There is no "checklist" of characteristics that will be foolproof. Each person is a unique inspiration of God. Let us not criticize each other's weaknesses, but support one another in growing and pursuing God in all things, even & especially in our vocation to marriage. Let's not speak down to each other or criticize without having walked a mile in someone else's shoes, but rather let us build up a culture that fosters holy relationships and strong Catholic marriages!!!

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May 7th, 2013 - Jennifer-728047 said:

Mary 2200 I agree. It's terrible! In the years I have been open to dating on catholic online dating sites, and I have found the same but different...they won't sleep with women they date..but they WILL view pornography then get defensive that you expect them to be "perfect" ??? Really????? That is perfection?

I also don't think it's a matter of "waiting for the right one" for every one. I am a woman and am designed and wired to be pursued. I have guy throwing their numbers at ME! They want me to call them, with the number they tell me to call "if interested." So, as a woman who knows her vocation and feel strongly called to marriage and family, I have to sit in the waiting room and hope and pray that you get yourself offlilne, off your ipads and iphones, and pursue. The moral courage, maturity and leadership just are not there in my generation. Sad. Christian 253779, men like you don't encounter me. Sorry to read of your experiences, because we ARE out there.

God is telling you "patience" Vincent? Are you sure? Or are you telling Him that He is telling you that. If I were a guy, since I'm leader type and proactive in life, I'd not stop until I pursued and found her. Be men, ladies, be women! Theology of the Body is a great start, then possibly Catholic psychology/therapy to see if any side effects to the sins of our own or others, are inhibiting your leadership and courage to pursue.

Perhaps our spouses have been contracepted? Aborted out? I don't know. Maybe just people being so addicted to their "me"phones and not being aware of the surroundings? Case in point: I was at the airport the other day and so many single people just sitting there on their phones...imagine if we TALKED to people, again. And communicated, shared, introduced ourselves. Just an anti-social world?

....as I wait, I will continue serving Him, loving Him and doing all I can to bring Jesus to the world -- hopefully one day He will find me a suitable partner who will help me carry the crosses and add to the joys.

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May 7th, 2013 - Mary-2200 said:

The practicing Catholic men I have met ( not saying all, just almost all I have met) have pretty much the same sexual morals as the men of the world. They don't date women who won't sleep with them -- unless she's so much younger or hotter than his other options that it's worth it to him.

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May 7th, 2013 - Christian-253779 said:

Too many women on here don't agree with Church teaching, apparently because they think they know better than the Church, which was only founded by someone named JESUS CHRIST, who promised that the Holy Spirit would guide her to Truth, and that the gates of hell shall not prevail against her. Also, too many women who could have several children (based on their age) put "1-2" down as their "ideal" number... why?? It's not that you HAVE to have several children, but... why is 1, or 2 your ideal? What are you afraid of? Now here I refer to women who agree with all 7 of the teachings listed on the profile. Seems that they are not really open to life, and don't really trust God. When I come across this, I look for an explanation in the profile, but I don't really find one, at least not in writing... maybe the best explanation is sometimes right there in the photos... they lead a lifestyle of material comfort and fun, and I guess "too many" kids get in the way of that. Be careful, women... for all you know, you might not even be able to have ONE child, because you waited too long, or you contracepted, or... worse. This is not being "judgmental", by the way... it is called discernment and prudence. Most of these women are physically attractive, and I guess that's why they are this way... they get enough attention from men, so they themselves get more picky and demanding. This brings me to the nutshell version of why I could never find anyone: those women whose virtue I admired, were not in the least attractive to me. Those women who were attractive to me, were not virtuous, or were already taken, or not eligible for sacramental marriage. Welcome to the modern world. Ergo, there really is no one for me.

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May 6th, 2013 - George-965436 said:

I am quite young for my age. Only two women have replied and both took a pass after I told them about myself. Am I too old to find a woman who would like to spend her life with me?

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May 5th, 2013 - Laura-857740 said:

It's because no one wants to make that final commitment. Got news for those men, your life will be horrible when you get older and need help. I see it everyday in my profession.

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May 2nd, 2013 - Arlene-713441 said:

I have been divorce 20 years this month. I was busy educating my daughter. Work and Home, Work and Home, I was on the church choir, and the big one is I needed to find the time to heal. But I haven't been looking. I figure with as much contact as I have with the public, he would cross my path if God wanted him to. Arlene

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May 1st, 2013 - Robert-751990 said:

God has not introduced you to anyone yet? BULL and happy Horse manure! hahah....Such a dumb liner...

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April 29th, 2013 - Evelyn-968299 said:

What makes us so self absorbed. Why can't we just be content with what He gave us?Hard sometimes I know. But common people.Stop looking for answers and look inward. It's not Rocketscience. Grow Up!

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April 27th, 2013 - MaryAlice-964548 said:

I lost my husband ten years ago and vowed never to marry again. But that is easier said than done. With time you feel so alone. You need a partner, someone to be with, talk and share. Go do things, places, etc. I see so many women that are alone, for whatever reasons, and they say that even though one has gotten older, you still need someone. God made us women to have a husband, the partner of our lives -Adam and Eve. But it is true many men prefer the younger ones, but I feel we still have a lot to offer a nice man who is serious about settling down the years that we have left. Only God knows and it is in His Hands.

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April 27th, 2013 - SeJin-868712 said:

My priority is to get a job at the U. After then, I will not hesitate to find my boyfriend. If possible, I hope that I can marry someone who is close to my ideal match.

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April 26th, 2013 - Pamela-863129 said:

It seems I'm to old and men are only looking for younger women. Just because my birthday says I'm old doesn't mean I don't want to be held and loved.

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April 26th, 2013 - Margaret-966879 said:

I will have to admit, even though I voted for one option, each one builds on the other, or several different combinations of the options.

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April 25th, 2013 - Marilyn-965895 said:

didn't think, at my age, there would be anyone nice and a Catholic who would want to take a chance on me. I love to laugh, love animals, love my children, grandchildren and my great-grandchildren. God has blessed me, never thought I'd live long enough to see great-grandchildren. I have one grandson and four granddaughters. I have two daughters that have their families. Love to have fun but, have to use a walker to get around. was hit by a car 16 years ago. unfortunately I have osteoarthritis, so every year gets a little rougher. when people ask how I'm doing I always say still walking.

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April 24th, 2013 - Espe-410886 said:

It gets more difficult as I get older and it's either gentlemen fifteen yrs. younger or ten yrs. older that are interested and I'm not interested in neither. It's hard to find that special someone two or three yrs. younger with much of the same interests as me. I was told by two gentlemen on Catholic Match if I ever considered becoming a nun because of some of my responses. I'll wait for God to decide what he wants for me.

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April 24th, 2013 - Elizabeth-737581 said:

It's hard to be a single woman--especially at my age--and have an expectation that dating is about a relationship and not about just "having a good time" in every sense of the word. Most people act shocked that you could be waiting for marriage. I went out with one gentleman (not CM) who I learned had been married 3 times and who believed everything was "for pleasure." Needless to say, we didn't go out again! Even on CM, I see gentlemen all the time who express their disagreement with Church teaching on pre-marital sex and contraception. However, I admire their honesty. They may disagree, but at least they are open about it.

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April 24th, 2013 - Mariella-964442 said:

I was once prayed for Him to appear. All the specific details about it while Im in a train. I can't believed God sent him in just matter of months in 2011. I had dumped him twice for the past years and for third time he was asking me again. So I put up a 100 days challenge to decide. And with much prayer and discernment God knocked me thru sending His message so I said yes. Its a great challenge for me because its a long distance but I said, if God is giving you a blessing, why are you pulling away from it. I prayed to Mama Mary then if I decided to said yes, I am ready to let it go at the end if its not accdg to His will. Truly, after one and a half year, God put me out in that relationship. I let it go. I know I deserve well, I know Im worth it, like a princess in Her father's kingdom. And then, I find myself here. No, kidding. I believed that when we prayed, the other one is hearing our prayer too. So lets be careful when were praying about that special someone. God's plan is just taking place on me. Im still enjoying my service at SFC and maybe He still molding me and preparing me better this time. And if time comes again I still pray to Mama Mary, that if I said yes, Im still able to let it go at the end if everything is not accdg to His will along the way. Yeah, our hearts long for that something deep but only through Him we find that peace and happiness. We just need to trust deeply and be faithful to His timing.

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April 24th, 2013 - Alejandro-159799 said:

I was looking but I didnt know what was important, I hooked up with the wrong girls, Ive always fallen for the looks, I was shallow... Now I know whats important, girls my age in my country have a lot of bagagge. Then you talk to your friends that are married and it is not always fun of happiness 100%, you become scared, someone broke my heart long time ago and i Truly hated! Im too choosy, personal finances are not very good these times. There are many things, but I really dont have a clue how to change my status, meaning how can I meet a beautiful catholic woman?. Ive tried in my country, but to be honest even in prayer groups I ended with the crazy ones (pretty ones also). Its hard, but not impossible, that is why im trying in catholicmatch

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April 23rd, 2013 - Car-930737 said:

After my husband died, I concentrated on raising my children. Today they are on their own and I pray to God to introduce me to the right Christian man. I have faith that he will, but If it meant for me not to meet such person I will accept GOD wishes to remain single for the remaining years of my life.

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April 22nd, 2013 - Jan-803232 said:

Most men won't even respond to or take the time to get to know someone who is overweight. It's extremely difficult to lose weight at this age. Sometimes I wonder if God has given me this shield to help weed out the Princes from the superficial.

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April 21st, 2013 - David-629572 said:

I am still waiting for a magical Soulmate to descend from heaven in a golden chariot full of roses. Then I will know they are the One.

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April 21st, 2013 - Paul-930069 said:

My happiness is not dependent on someone else.

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April 17th, 2013 - SusanMarie-612261 said:

I do not try to meet the person and then when I least expect it God introduces someone to me. This has not happened in quit some time, but if it is God's will for me to be single, I accept it.

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April 16th, 2013 - MaryEllen-963769 said:

I particularly chose NOT to put myself "out there" while I was raising my son, even though I would have loved to have found the right guy who would have made a great role model to him. My son didn't need confusion and I needed stability - it was a better choice to remain "single" than divide my priorities. My role as Mom came first when his father stepped out. Prior to meeting my son's father, I looked to the things I love to find someone who might be a potential mate - never met anyone who was single, available & interested. Now that my son is an "adult," I'm stepping out again in faith, trusting my heart, my instincts and know exactly what I want in a husband - (as well as what I don't). If my soul-mate is indeed out there, even in cyberspace, Lord willing, he will lead us together!

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April 13th, 2013 - Ricky-944326 said:

I can relate to Amy. I have never cheated on any woman but I have been cheated on and I loved these women so much. Some times you start to think what's the use? You get to the point where you don't want to be hurt again. You give it up to God and try to keep the faith but it can be difficult at times

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April 12th, 2013 - SeJin-868712 said:

I have not met the one who is closest to my ideal match described in my profile.

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April 11th, 2013 - Angela-950014 said:

I'd say lack of prioritization, lack of having an active social life aligned with my values and beliefs to increased my chances of meeting Mr.Right, and lack of trust of my gut feelings. I got God's call, attended, worked hard to become a loving couple, compromised beliefs to make it work, yet it did not happened at the end. Probing to myself that my gut feelings were right since day one. Currently, I'm working on loving and respect myself more, having clarity about what I love and respect in my future partner, working on being honest with myself and others, and strengthening my will to not settled down for less.

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April 11th, 2013 - Lett-65959 said:

Probably the work schedule and the working environment..and me - slow in realizing that i am still single and no night life. (so--hopping on the next time machine to go back in time..;p )

Well joking aside, it's really-all in God's time. Just live a life with no regrets.

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April 9th, 2013 - Angelique-926898 said:

Patience is a virtue

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April 7th, 2013 - Amy-766016 said:

I have been hurt really bad by the only 2 men I ever Truly Loved and they both cheated, and I would of never thought that, so I've choosen to be single for the last 2yrs, for me to enjoy being w/ me again,and now I'm 100% ready for God to send me my Soul-Mate. Trust was what contributed to me still being single.

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April 7th, 2013 - Diane-676415 said:

I AM A VERY SHY PERSON. I AM 4'6" A LOT OF MEN MAKE FUN OF ME OR VERY RUDE REMARKS.I LIKE TO SWIM, WALKING, MOVIES,I LIKE TO GO TO CALIF. AND WALK NEAR THE WATER , AND I LIKE TO .GO FOR RIDES. I AM NOT LOOKING FOR MARRIGE.I AM LOOKING FOR A GREAT FRIEND. WHO LIKE THE SAME THING. I HAVE 4 KIDS AND 10 GRANDCHILDREN. THEY DO NOT LIVE WITH ME.

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April 7th, 2013 - Julia-170924 said:

I am still very much in love with him though he has been gone 8 years. God has not sent another like him. Guess am just spoiled. After having the best I am alone again.

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April 7th, 2013 - Marina-959398 said:

We can do all our best. But our efforts shall be approved by God.

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April 6th, 2013 - Ernie-950849 said:

There's an option missing: one bad decision. Lesson learned: make sure you consult someone, maybe even several people, including a priest, before you make a major decision.

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April 6th, 2013 - James-805568 said:

Make the effort, search the ladies out, and allow God to bless my efforts. That has been the way !

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April 6th, 2013 - MaryBeth-902916 said:

I am waiting but agree that GOD may not just "plunk" him down!

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April 4th, 2013 - Caroline-957531 said:

When the time is right, he'll come out of nowhere and into my life.

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April 4th, 2013 - Joshua-951407 said:

Sadly I think all the choices prolly would've fit me, but I could only choose one...

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April 4th, 2013 - Ruby-952722 said:

I think must rely on God help , then can find a fit each other person. like me a volunteer work, and have same hobby men.

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April 4th, 2013 - Eric-941851 said:

I think I lack confidence and have trouble believing in myself or maybe it is I just never learned how to talk to women.

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April 3rd, 2013 - Steven-958229 said:

Much of the time I take the "actions" of someone who is "shy". One of my great pitfalls of the past was "not trying at all"... then the pendulum swung to "trying too hard".... then the pendulum swung too far to "not trying at all"..... then pendulum swung "trying too hard" ....Now I am using one the of Our Lord's gift to us "Free Will" to take DIFFERENT "actions"

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April 3rd, 2013 - Amy-952196 said:

Timing is everything--discerning God's will on whether he wants me to follow the vocation of being single or married.

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April 3rd, 2013 - SeJin-868712 said:

God lets me wait for better timing of happy marriage.

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April 2nd, 2013 - Jennifer-116756 said:

Really? You don't have time....and trust me if I knew I would FIX it ASAP!

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March 31st, 2013 - Sue-906387 said:

I believe if we're called by God for the sacrament of marriage, it will happen @ God's timing. Hence, there is no reason to worry or rush things all of which will only hinder God's plan for us and take us backward.

Easy does it. Trusting in God's way, plan, time if it was mean to be.

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March 31st, 2013 - Patsy-932553 said:

My eyes were not yet open as I believe there were other things God wanted to reveal to me.

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March 30th, 2013 - SeJin-868712 said:

Single life is also important for spiritual growth like marriage life is.

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March 30th, 2013 - Richard-143340 said:

I don't know. I haven't fallen in love with a single female in say, two weeks, now. What gives ?

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March 29th, 2013 - Joe-890299 said:

I like Richard, Greg & Hector's answers & would like to add some of these so-called "matches' don't adhere to things on my wish list. E.g : I think to have a "100%" match you only have to meet 1 requirement as in Height: "4 ft, 3" to 6 ft, 8." i usually reply that I'm 4 ft, 3.....sitting down!

As for age, 55 to 64, in my case, cause I'm too old to want someone older than me! Jurassic Park, Baby, here I come!!

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March 29th, 2013 - Rosann-947783 said:

None of the polls adhere to what I say I want specially about age. I really am not interested in anyone 10 to 15 years older or younger.

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March 29th, 2013 - Chris-930705 said:

I had to laugh at the nature of this poll: most of the replies seems to absolve the poll-taker of responsibility. There's an underlying current of "If people would just *meet* me, I'm sure I would have plenty of people lining up to enjoy my company!"

In my case, the truth is probably closer to "a little of this, a little of that, and after several decades of living by myself, I've fallen into some habits that make women think twice about me. But I'm trying to improve. Pray for me!"

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March 28th, 2013 - Matthew-954586 said:

I don't think we should expect God to "introduce us" to each other. He would not have given us free will or Jesus who told us to actually get up and do good things.

Modern culture does not coincide with our beliefs, that being said I think there are not enough places or instances to meet like minded people or maybe even not enough like minded and good people in our day to day lives.

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March 28th, 2013 - Andrew-290721 said:

Satan has systematically eliminated women who might be compatible with me over the last 60 years or so. I never had a chance. I want to marry a grownup, not a kid in jeans and sneakers. I wanted to image fatherhood, and I wanted my wife to image motherhood, but no one cares about that.

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March 28th, 2013 - Richard-595743 said:

In the past, dating was easy and fun, because everyone was out and about: no computer, internet, netflix, cable tv, etc. that keep most at home nowadays. It was also much easier to converse with others in public places in the past and meet, as everyone now is locked to his/her cell phone and iPod, etc., even in public places. In any event, internet dating is no substitute or remedy for the loss of "real" dating and the development of lasting relationships.

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March 28th, 2013 - Greg-40084 said:

Where was the "All of the above" answer?

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March 28th, 2013 - CatalinaMercedes-708660 said:

Please send us more options of possible matches, I think its a good tool.

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