If you are not finding the kind of guy you feel has potential enough, then moving off site might be the best thing for you. I can't argue with you for your reasons. Many others have made the same point in the past. For me, it's like Khoa's fishing pole analogy. You just keep trying and trying until you have some success.
Good luck in future and keep "him" open in your prayers.
Thanks Robert. Yes, I have decided to look elsewhere and maybe take a break from all of this. I have spoken to some great guys here who would be great matches if they didn't live so far. I speak to very great ladies here as well and they mention the same thing so I am reassured it's not just me.