I am new to the site ( and dating for that matter) and I am still trying to get the hang of things. At this point I feel like I did not do my due dilligence before siging up for CM. I am learning a lot about what makes a profile more attrctive.I know, I need more pictues of me biking, doing Judo, me with my dogs and my KofC voulenteer work.
But, one thing I can't get a difinitive answer on when I do a Google serch is do you send an e-mail, or an emotigram? I have sent a few emotigrams out with a message that shows I actually (gasp) read their profile. But, are emotigrams still considered as flippant and too easy to do? Would an e-mail show more time was taken to read the person's profile ?
I know, all women are getting deluged with e-mails and winks from all the guys on CM. I just want a guess if the response is a " O, I got an emotigram ( click) delete" or " O, someone read my profile and took the time to send an e-mail, how nice (click) delete."