I know it is so difficult around the anniversary date of the passing of Bob and so many others who have experienced the same with their spouses. What great love you both had for each other. Yes, time passes but the memories are there for the rest of your earthly existence.
My rosary on Thursday will be for the repose of Bob's soul and a request that God will continue to shelter you in His loving arms. As you know, I am a candle-lighting type of person and firmly believe one of our best sacramentals. Next time at Mass, I will light a candle for you both to signify your unity as a couple and the oneness you shared guided by the love of God.