You are relatively new here. Those of us who have been here a while remember times when there were people who would attempt to chew up a person and spit them out for what they wrote on the forums. Many of us have learned to keep quiet and avoid controversy. Any kind of preference for anything, or direct confession of anything especially in terms of prefernces or a complaint, can start a whole barrage.... and sharing that-- tips off others who are trawling for controversy or have certain issues that they can't get over.
People like me did not come to this site to argue. I have no desire to argue on or off of the forum. I don't need headaches.
there is nothing scary about discussing a topic. It was what Cathy said and I agreed- this- based on past behaviors of others in the forums.