Cynthia, If the guy is not a paying member, but is sending you emotigrams, and cannot see a return message, then send him an emoticon that he can see. That might inspire him to pay up and join CM. If he is serious, and sees you respond with an emoticon, it might help. Duane
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Welcome to the Forums Duane. Post often so we can all get to know you. And best of luck to you in your search.