But is ok if they dont even give a chance to try, and might one day you will ralize that being single Mom have a lot challenges and go through all the make you so pruod. whatever is I just wait to meet the one GOD has for me
As far as your situation goes, it's not unique. Dating in the virtual world is difficult, as is trying to find dates in "real life" -- whether you have children or not. As a single parent, you know you are carrying quite a burden. My own view is that single parents are automatically qualified for sainthood.
John offered some good insight as far as dating. His priority is his children, which is entirely appropriate, given his circumstances. There are added considerations that need to be thought out.
But, all-in-all, a constant problem is that it seems people aren't communicating enough. A word you'll often hear about this is "patience". It's a key element.