BINGO! It follows then that the perceived "need" for instant initial physical attraction is, to at least some extent, the result of cultural conditioning, not some inherent human trait. Like most other cultural influences, the effect has not been positive. Which is why we need to lead by example and return to an emphasis on core values rather than going along with the crowd.
I totally agree, Jerry. How we go about doing that, I just don't know.
Happy Birthday, Cat ................ and Happy New Year! Cheers! [that's a Bailey's]