I find it bizzare that you're complaining about how women present themselves but you don't seem to give any thought to how you're presenting yourself. You come across as arrogant, angry towards women, and disrespectful towards your fellow Catholics. None of those make you look like desirable husband material.
My comment about drinking and showing a tiny bit of skin has to do with exaggeration...you are exaggerating, quite a bit. I've seen some Catholic guys complain about a woman showing her knees or shoulders, and it makes it seem like any woman who isn't covered from head to foot is some kind of slut. If a woman wants to give another woman pointers about how she might be attracting the wrong kind of attention, that's one thing, but women usually understand that this is the kind of exchange that happens between close friends or family members or simply out of an act of charity and goodwill. A man calling out a whole group of women on a Catholic website and using angry and denigrating language is a whole other ballgame, and I'm kind of shocked to see approval from some of the women here.
As for pictures, I guess I never make the assumption that a person's life is always caught on film. I don't like having to take pictures every time I do something--I'd rather just enjoy the occasion. If I see a guy's profile and he only has a few pictures or some that are similar, I assume that he doesn't have time to sit around taking pictures of himself all the time. If I want to know the kind stuff he does, talking to him is the best way to do that. (And obviously, there are plenty of places in the profile where activities and interests are mentioned.)
I guess in the age of social media it's easy to fall into the trap that your online profile is the most accurate representation of who you are.