Someone named Bob 59786, age 27, made a similar error, although she wasn't overweght at all = 5'6", 123 lbs, size 10 dress. She, in reality, had all I needed in a wife, but I was too dumb to recognize that.
Saw an article today that those of us who botch excellent relationships - many don't recognize that until middle age which begins at age 45.
Sweet, I'm not middle aged yet There is still time... But Bob, 5'6", 123 lbs is probably a size 4