I am a guy looking at women in the range of 28 to 32. I would curious to know when Ladies (particularly in this range) think it is best to meet in person.
Similar to David’s thread on “jaded on this site.” – I have exchanged a few messages with a couple of women. After 2 messages (excluding my first message) I suggest we meet in person. After this there is abruptly no reply from them.
I think women feel secure using an online resource like CM, but when it comes to physically meeting in person, they are unwilling. (I would like to note that with the exception of one, all of my contacts were long distance. I have always offered to make the drive, so this is not an issue.)
So Ladies, when do you feel comfortable to meet? Would you prefer to exchange message for months before you meet, or do you think it is OK to insist on meeting soon?
My basic issue is with flakes. I consider those who are not ready to meet, are probably flakes. Am I correct? (By the way, if some of you women have flaked and can share it, I would be grateful.)
Thank you all,