How are you?
I have been on SEVERAL sites...eHarmony, Match, plentyoffish, zoosk, Catholic Singles and CM...most I have re subscribed, over the last 10 years.
I have thought about this a lot.
I think that there are some different things to think about:
First of all, do you REALLY want to find the ONE, are you really ready? Do you have room in your life? Sometimes I think we are so desperate, we go online. I personally think MANY men on here (and prob. some women) are simply curious, they want to "SEE" what's out there, it's just for fun....
Secondly, I think we all need to be realistic. We all want the perfect ONE...but, look at us! We are not perfect, we have to step down a few notches and be realistic.
Thirdly, I believe we are attracted to a "TYPE" sometimes we need to look past that...change our ethnicity requirement, or height...or distance, we might be missing out on something or someone!
Lastly, It's not up to us. LET GO AND LET GOD! There are A LOT of single people on this site....if we cannot find the one, I think we need to let it go, God will provide.
I have been waiting a long time. I have learned a lot about myself and the past four check points I've mentioned. I have done ALL of these things. I am still single, so I have to believe, it's still not my time. :)
God Bless and LET GO AND LET GOD