Trying to send someone an emote, I received the following message:
Criteria Mismatch: [name] must send you a message or add you as a favorite before you can send messages to him.
How/why does this happen? How is it that he/she could send me a message but I can't initiate contact? Where are these "criteria" set?
Totally confused here.....
Just heard from a CM gal pal that she was contacted by someone 30+ years older without either having to make the other a favorite or anything else. What gives?
How old is she and/or the man? The age difference is a percentage of the older member's age, not a fixed number of years, so 80->50 might work where 50->20 would not.
Okay, last week I was able to send messages to a number of people 30 years my junior without their having contacted me first. Today I cannot. Huh?
The same people? As I understand it, their sex and whether they have contacted you first are both factors in the algorithm.