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Devoted to discussion pertaining to those issues which are specifically relevant to people 45+. Topics must have a specific perspective of people in this age group for it to be on topic.

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Feb 25th 2013 new

(Quote) Joan-529855 said: If sexual attraction is so important to you now, it will still be when you are marrie...
(Quote) Joan-529855 said:


If sexual attraction is so important to you now, it will still be when you are married for 20 years when your spouse may no longer be sexually attractive (since you say you are only sexually attracted to women 20 to 40 years old). There are two parts to attraction needed for a healthy marriage, according to John Paul II in Theology of the Body, sexuality and sentimentality. The lesser of the two, in a long lasting marriage, is sexuality; sentimentality is what holds the marriage together, not sexuality. In regards to your statement that you will remain married for life, unlike those who have not. What if your spouse files for divorce from you? We are a "no fault" country and there is nothing you can do about it but sign the papers. I agree with your statement that if you do divorce you will not remarry as according to scripture we are married to our spouse until death do us part. I am glad to see that you have opened up your search to include women closer to your age and hope that God puts a desire in your heart to be sexually attracted to women in that age group. Blessings to you.

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Again I did not say that I was only attracted to women 20-40 years old...I said that women are most attractive in that age range...which is what I think God intended since that is the age range that women have children.

Feb 25th 2013 new

I know this room says ages 45+ but....


Midlife crisis looks like enrolling in grad school!


(At least at the university I'm at. The professor has been sort of thrown for a loop in one class because everyone is older, he finally just said "We can just call each other first names since we're all roughly the same age.)

Feb 25th 2013 new

(Quote) Katherine-868943 said: I know this room says ages 45+ but....Midlife crisis looks like enrolling in grad...
(Quote) Katherine-868943 said:

I know this room says ages 45+ but....


Midlife crisis looks like enrolling in grad school!


(At least at the university I'm at. The professor has been sort of thrown for a loop in one class because everyone is older, he finally just said "We can just call each other first names since we're all roughly the same age.)

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That is because there aren't any jobs for those over 45!! I am in grad school myself and yes, going back to school is my "midlife crisis". I am also employed fulltime so it isn't like the "free flowing days" of my college youth. Oh to be young again heart (not really, I have 4 twenty somethings for kids and I wouldn't want to be them for anything).

Feb 25th 2013 new

A midlife crisis looks like this: crazy hyper Robin raspberry lil mikie

And then... reality settles into one's bones, and the gold chains get sold on Ebay. wave

Feb 25th 2013 new

(Quote) Joan-529855 said: That is because there aren't any jobs for those over 45!! I am in grad school mys...
(Quote) Joan-529855 said:


That is because there aren't any jobs for those over 45!! I am in grad school myself and yes, going back to school is my "midlife crisis". I am also employed fulltime so it isn't like the "free flowing days" of my college youth. Oh to be young again (not really, I have 4 twenty somethings for kids and I wouldn't want to be them for anything).

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Well, there's not a lot of jobs to go round, period. I've always wanted to teach so it hasn't actually changed my plan too much...but it's actually kind of nice not being the oldest one in the classroom, I was a little worried about that. :)

Feb 25th 2013 new

(Quote) Steve-72317 said: Hey man look around you. The ladies in thier fifties are mighty attractive. You need t...
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Hey man look around you. The ladies in thier fifties are mighty attractive. You need to read more profiles and see what you are missing in the 50's ladies.


Steve

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Feb 25th 2013 new

(Quote) Ronald-937125 said: Again I did not say that I was only attracted to women 20-40 years old...I said that wom...
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Again I did not say that I was only attracted to women 20-40 years old...I said that women are most attractive in that age range...which is what I think God intended since that is the age range that women have children.

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Men are also more attractive in that age range since "that is the age range that men have children"...Blinded by love

Feb 25th 2013 new

(Quote) Francine-132290 said: Men are also more attractive in that age range since "that is the age range that ...
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Men are also more attractive in that age range since "that is the age range that men have children"...

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Men can have children at any age...without viagra...that was done all the time in the 19th century when a 50 year old man could marry a 20 year old woman and it wasn't a big deal.

If I married a 20 year old there would be no problem with me having children...if a woman over 50 married a 20 year old man I really don't think she could have children...that's just reality, I'm not trying to create ill feelings here...

Feb 25th 2013 new

(Quote) Julie-42315 said: Just wondering. Do most people have them?
(Quote) Julie-42315 said:

Just wondering. Do most people have them?


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Here you go, enjoy this guy having a bad midlife crisis. www.youtube.com

Feb 25th 2013 new

(Quote) Julie-42315 said: Just wondering. Do most people have them?
(Quote) Julie-42315 said:

Just wondering. Do most people have them?


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Here you go, enjoy this guy having a bad midlife crisis. www.youtube.com

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