I would tell adults to acknowledge their desire for sexual expression. Then I would tell them to Actively be about the business of making friends and dating and actively searching for a spouse. I would tell men to let that natural desire help him keep on track with this goal? Am I wrong? I would tell women to acknowledge and search.
I think those who marry, with the PRIMARY goal of having a regular sex partner, might windup in an unhappy marriage?
People have got to be honest with themselves and not drag their feet, is one of the things I am saying. We are all given a certain amount of energy. The question is, how are we going to use it?
They have to be willing to find their best friend and willing to keep looking when doors do not open.