If you send an emote, make sure to include a message - hopefully something more meaningful than "you're hot...yeah baby!" Maybe you could comment or ask a question on something in her profile. That way she has something to respond to. An empty emote can lead her to think you are not a paying member and she may not want to engage in a high speed emote exchange. Those are very unfulfilling.
Wait......."you're hot.....yeah, baby!" isn't very meaningful? Curses! No wonder I haven't received any responses. *l* I keed. I keed. Yes, sending a message with a question that is thoughtful is my new plan of attack. *s*