A man's virginity is just as valuable as a woman's. There is so much social pressure on men to confirm to a life of debauchery, women need to support our virgin brothers as much as they need to respect us.
ITs a two way street.
Don't ever be ashamed, don't ever feel the need to hide, ignore the people who seek to silence you and instead stand up taller and speak out louder. It isn't about hurting the feelings of others who have fallen in this regard, it isn't about being holier than thou, its about telling the world that yes there are virgins who choose to be so, there are virgins who are perfectly normal and healthy, and that no, you don't need to be shagging all in sundry to be popular, feel good, or have a good relationship.
Any woman who disrepects the male virgin is not worth your time.
Any man who seeks to deminish the virginity of a woman is an idiot.
Any person who seeks to shame the virgin for their virginity are showing more about their true character than any rebuttal ever could.
- Because they are stupid and have bought into the lies of the sexual revolution.
- Because they have no personality or self esteem and think sex is the key to holding onto a relationship.
- Because they don't look at a man as a human being to love, but as a means to an end. (Can you say "user"?)
Hang in there, folks. It is very sad to hold onto a special gift for that one special person...and to find that he/she has wasted it on someone else. Both of you deserve better.
There are many deceivers out there, while calling themselves Catholic, contradict the Church's teaching.