Trish, first off, I believe this could be the means God will use to lead me to 'that someone'.
In the few to several extended exchanges I've had on CM, it seemed pretty clear that were we each 'Free to Marry', there was/is strong interest and definite possibility. In one case, this was virtually absolute and undeniable, such that we each re-doubled our effort to complete our annulment work; God ultimately had another Plan, but not before this dear lady made an enormous impact on my life and Faith that is STILL unfolding... I believe this too was/is part of God's Plan.
I have been consistently told by friends who've gone thru the life process of divorce, etc. and eventual re-marriage that "looking" intently, was not the right approach. Rather just make contacts, seek acquaintance, and truly give the quest up to God, and He will present His Gifts when you least expect it. Then I'm told: "Hang On, because God doesn't do things in half measures!"
It seems that those inclined to disappointment, and even despair in any measure are just not ready. Still, I believe this is a terrific resource (not the only one) for fellowship, and learning to better understand ourselves and the (Catholic) process to finding our futures. We just need to beware of the modern tendency to expect fast results - especially from electronic environs!