Otherwise, I think it's a foolish question. How can I decide I'm willing to relocate near your family when I don't even know you yet?
I have 4 kids, all in their early 20's. Of course I would LIKE to be near them but God may have a different plan. The one that "bugs" me is the single 20 somethings (no children yet) who reply with "near family (mine)". Geez, get out and see the world!! To clarify, I don't browse 20 somethings for a "match", but sometimes they will post something in the forums that is interesting and I browse their profile to see where they are "coming from".
It is similar to the "how many children" question. We may desire a certain number but ultimately God is the one that decides how many children we will bear (if any).
I feel as though the questions set people up for disappointment. They clearly are not set up to help people realize that God is in charge, not man/woman.
We really need to look to the saints, including the twelve apostles, as to how we conduct our lives. If the twelve apostles said, "near family" the gospel would never have been spread to the world.
I still see it as "selfish" and can't get over the visual image of a 2.5 year old saying "MINE".