Honestly,,,personally,,,,I'm not good at playing games and I'm really not willing to learn how !!
I'm old and tired and I'm willing to do my share,,,,,,,but if it seems like
( digging ditches type of ) work then maybe it wasn't meant to be...
I'm not smart enough to put all the pieces in proper places on the puzzle by myself....I thought that is why we seek companionship...to help each other find the right places for the puzzle pieces of life...
I need to join the """OLD FARTS SEEKING SIMPLE JOY AND LOVE"""" site....
I am personally not seeking anything in the way of romance until my annullment is complete, but I would love to make friends. I am not confident that I will find my future husband on here because I think that sometimes people on this site are so narrowly focused on one ideal imaginary goal that they aren't opening themselves up to the many wonderful people God has brought into their lives via this site.
I can see where you are coming from, and you seem to have a point. I suggest you expand your search. Make it global. Go to events where you will definitely meet suitable men. If the friends you currently have do not open access to suitable men, make other friends from other groups, if necessary. Don't put all your eggs in the catholicmatch.com basket. Don't give up.
So good to see you! I agree also that one can communicate and learn from each other's experiences and personal stories. I was on CM for a short period of time last year. Then had no interest in returning until I met you and Lina, Janet, Bev, John, Dan, Allen, Michael and the rest of the Phoenix in the Spring Gang. So I'm in for 6 months and I'm learning, listening and thank you Lina>>> I'm posting too! haha!
We are so lucky to be rich in life experiences and sharing all that we are on CM.
Love and Blessings to all xo Joyce