(quote) Sheila-953093 said: Bohdan, I think you've made yourself clear in your profile! Your status is Divorced and you have marked In Process in the Free To Marry spot. That is not a misleading combination. From your profile I would expect that your ultimate goal is to find someone to marry.
I, personally, am not so brave and strong to be anything but Friendship Only until I am, indeed, Free To Marry. To some degree I believe I am unable to expect anything from a potential suitor unless I am Free. If he is Free and I am not, I feel too vulnerable. If he is not Free, either, I am still too vulnerable because what if neither of us receives our annulments and my heart is his?? or his mine?? I'm not judging but only making a judgement for myself. Hopefully, you know yourself enough to know whether you will be so vulnerable, too.
Thank you Sheila;
I don't think you are not brave, you are a practical Woman, women tend to be this way. I'm a little bit of a dreamer, often hoping against all odds.
You know, in Genesis 2, it is said that "God created Man, Man and Woman he created them". To me this means He created a human being in two parts, man and woman. Therefore man without woman is incomplete, and woman without man is incomplete. Would you agree?
Sometimes I have a feeling God has other plans for me, but if he does, I would try to re-negotiate, so I can have my beloved Father, and my beloved Wife with me