Hey Annie, I read your post and laughed because I am the exact same way. Except for me, I'm fairly shy at first, but once you get me talking, I won't shut up, and say things I wonder why I did say later, not like they were bad things to say, but maybe too much at once. Like I was on a 2nd date with someone I met on here, and we were sitting down for lunch after taking a bike ride, and I thought we were hitting it off, but we talked for a good 2.5 hours. There's always a point later on when you think to yourself, "Should I have said that?" But don't let it rattle you, if they never get back to you, or says it's not going to work, it's just not meant to be. That happened to me with her, she sent me a message that it's not going to work, it's not me it's her thing, blah blah blah.
I wish there were more people closer to me honestly, NY is too far for me unfortunately, or else I would be interested.