In addition to what Jerry said, the following is buried in the info:
Please Note: Updates to your profile status will not affect your subcription in any way. Please ensure that your renewal method is set appropriately before your scheduled renewal date. Updates to any status other than active are limited to one in a seven day time period in order to avoid abuse of the feature.
I updated your profile status to "Seeking Friendship Only". If you ever click on the wrong thing, we are always happy to make a correction. The limit that Sheila mentioned is there for those who abuse the feature, however, it's clear that isn't your intention.
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