My only general advice, Haley, is to be open with others about the kind of woman you are, in a joyful way. That helps to draw good men to you, the men who value the type of woman you are. Then, as you proceed in getting to know someone, gradually discussing more personal, private, even difficult things is appropriate. The exact timing is as unique as every friendship. Some people are open very quickly; others take time to build trust and to see if the friendship is going to be serious. If the relationship is heading in a serious direction, then there are all sorts of things that are important for a couple to discuss. If you have a good relationship with your parents, stay close to them. People with more experience in life than we have usually have a good nose and can give us their advice and insight. Pray, use common sense, and listen to the people you trust. Best wishes!