If there is someone in particular you are interested in, drop your hanky; if he doesn't pick it up, keep walking and don't look back. Men do tend to play women like chess pieces but I don't play games.
I don't know if it is about playing game or trying to please a man. If I were in love I would always want to please my partner.
I think it's more about how you play the game. Trying to learn men better learn how to communicate better. And the guys that don't see how hard we try.....well, God bless them.