Discussion related to living as a Catholic in the single state of life. As long as a topic is being discussed from the perspective of a single Catholic then it will be on-topic.
Tobias and Sarah's story is from the Book of Tobit, and his journey is guided by Saint Raphael.
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If there is someone in particular you are interested in, drop your hanky; if he doesn't pick it up, keep walking and don't look back. Men do tend to play women like chess pieces but I don't play games.
I don't know if it is about playing game or trying to please a man. If I were in love I would always want to please my partner.
I think it's more about how you play the game. Trying to learn men better learn how to communicate better. And the guys that don't see how hard we try.....well, God bless them.
But there is a time when hope (or maybe I should say, dreams?) needs to be set aside in favor of reality, and the reality is that for many of us, there is no partner.
I think the trick is truly living in the present, and being happy with what we have, when we have it. I don't know how to do that yet, though!
Any resemblance to chaste dating practices or principles of moral theology are figments of the listener's imagination...
Are you referring to hoping and waiting for a particular individual that one has in mind, or are you referring to the search in more general terms, as in trying to determine when to take a break from seeking?