Just putting it out there, as I'm not sure whether to open my mouth and tell friends and family that I'm getting out of my comfort zone and have joined Catholic Match. Smile.
In November I was having tea with a woman I met online who had not told her parents she was involved in online dating, in order to spare them worry. Ar that moment her mother called and in the course of their not-overlong conversation my date told her "I just have a couple of friends over now". At the risk of asking a really dumb question, would you have seen that as a major warning flag? An on-the-spot dealbreaker?
Only the handful of people who accept things as they are: my real confidantes.
The rest of my family can be pretty judgmental (esp. about things they are ignorant on) so I keep my mouth shut a lot.