This question keeps popping my head lately so i decided to create a topic for this... so here it is
I was wondering, how long most members have been on this dating site and what keeps them from renewing/subscribing back whether continuous or on/off thing?
Most of the people I had exchange message or still keeping in touch with have been here for a year or less and they are on and off this site. Based on what i read from the forums as I am getting to like it too.. some have been here for about 10 yrs or so, some are lucky to find their perfect catholic match after years of waiting, hoping and trying but to some if not most still in dismay, some are still hopeful like me to find our "perfect" and God willing catholic match. Some are even happy and having fun to have found good friends in here.
I had been a member of this site for almost a year now but a paying subscriber for 8 months now... so far the one that keeps me logging in here most of the time is by checking out the forums and the blog stories for the past 3 months now, since lately, i'm keeping my "expectations" low compare to when i started to join/subscribe on this site.
It often happens that you feel frustrated at times due to difficulty in finding "the one" due to various reasons or getting less messages at a daily, weekly, bi-monthly or even on a monthly basis. I also did tried the chatrooms and have a few good friends and continue to keep in touch with them outside cm. I had even met one CM member in person. Yes got my first date from CM with a woman and i think for her too! and we teased each other when we first met that it's unlucky for us that we were not invited by a CM guy for a first date but lucky for us to had met and make it happen because we felt we are like "lost" sisters that had found each other. She was even lucky to meet my siblings.
So the question or the sharing i wanted to see/read... how long have you been here in cm and what's keeping you from renewing/going back year after year? What features of CM do you like most and often checks out?
I just wanted to know your thoughts and CM stories as there are a lot of "negative" if not so good stories or rant of some members joining this site. :) I hope that this topic would give positive outlook or hope about cm.
Thanks in advance for sharing your thoughts and stories! I'm pretty sure to learn a lot from your sharings!
Godbless us all!