Sounds more like women. Switch the gym thing to "She didn't wash her hair". And the text and call thing. That's all on the girls. No one ever calls or texts me.
Honestly I don't know where you girls are living that you have such problems with men. Though I do think it has to do with the numbers. If you chase success you end up in the big cities where there are more women than men. Supply and demand means men there can afford to treat you bad. May I suggest you try dating men from a place with more men than women.
Like girls in Chicago should date guys from North West Indiana. Just saying. I think we can be more appreciative.