I know it's tough, and sometimes I feel like this, but I also know that it's never going to happen. We just have to live the life God gives us. I'm not gonna say "Someday you'll find her", because I know we both can only take so much of hearing about some so-called "someday" that may never come, but just letting you know, I know how you feel, and we just have to move on. God bless.
I'd say keep participating in the forums for knowledge from these fine folks. Don't get discouraged, your time will come.
I get where you're coming from though. Just keep trying and if it ever works out you'll be almost as happy as an 8-year old (seriously, kids do have it better though).
It's all about your state of mind. Choose JOY!