Tell me about your experience dating in your 40's and 50's. I'm finding dating in my late 40's a challenge...even though physically I haven't changed much. Any advice?What has worked for you and what has not? How do you keep from getting discouraged? Are you having any luck on this site? What's your strategy? IS there anything positive about dating at this age???
Actually, I'm able to remove most of the teenage angst from the process of getting to know men so it's actually more fun now. I also know more about myself and what I should look for / what I should avoid. It's easier for me to see whether I'd suit the specific gentleman too. The perspective of years is much better.
My experience: I am the one who asks for the date.
Anything positive? Well, usually they say yes because they're too surprised to say no. And sometimes they pick up the check.