Let's say you meet someone on CM. He or she seems to be very compatible with you. After a time of chatting, discerning, etc, you realize he/she may be "the one" so you have a heart to heart conversation about marriage.
During this conversation, he/she says, "Aside from God, I will need to be most important thing in your life."
Your reaction is:
a) of course! Duh!!! And you really mean it, too.
b) to add the disclaimer "except for my dirt bike/shoe-purse collection/weekly bar hop with friends...
c) you think to yourself that another whacko from Woodstock has flown the coop
d) agree but secretly know you will change their mind once you are married
e) excuse yourself to the bathroom and climb out the window, never to be heard from again
f) that scene from Fatal Attraction comes to mind - "I won't be ignored, Dan"
g) agree because you want to be married but the resentment begins