(quote) Paul-1049651 said: Isn't that's what's called a false dichotomy?
In any case:
-Would I want to marry someone who is considered popular...and talks about it to me? would depend on why they were popular and in what spirit they talked about it.
- Would I want to marry a doormat. No.
you are a brave soul to be the first to answer.
I see your point where popularity in the forums are concerned. I have never told anyone that I felt as though I was popular in here so when I heard it once upon a time, I was taken back a little. guess everyone needs to toot their own horn once in a while.
I don't consider myself popular. Not even back in HS or when I was the rep for a singles group. I did what I had to do to get the job done and had fun. I never boasted about it. guess that is just how I am.
I have always wanted to be a DJ though! that was my dream job years ago.