Still a little new at this...since May. I'm very concerned about security. A fairly close relationship develops between the guy and gal. The guy drops a little info that girl picks up on enough to do a preliminary background check(you know, just to make sure he isn't incarcerated or a murderer, extra wife, etc). Is this OK with CM? Nothing is put out there for
anyone else and would not be used against this person unless it was serious enough to report it. Just want to know rules and thoughts on this. As many of us are aware, not everyone can be trusted and not everyone tells the truth about important things, Catholic or otherwise. I'd sooner find out what I'm basically dealing with before I jump into a bad situation that could possibly have been avoided. Most often, people won't leave any clues to catch on....but then again, some do. What's the forum's feelings and input?