I just had to chime in here...Men, don't dye your hair. And if you are balding, don't wear a toupee. The most attractive quality a man can have is to not give a hoot what anyone thinks about how he looks. Natural (yet groomed) is always best when it comes to a man.
That kind of personal self confidence (that says, "this is who I am-take it or leave it, I am confident in who I am") does more to make a man look great than any dye can ever do.
I can't tell you how unmasculine I feel it is when a guy dyes his hair. And you can always tell when a man dyes his hair, because unless he is really foofy about it, and goes to a high end salon every three weeks to get a really good dye job (that has highlights and low lights and costs 300 dollars, like women do!, which by the way no man with any sense or financial savvy would ever do) he just uses grocery store "just for men" flat, single tone color, which is almost always too dark, and you can always tell. And then that brings up the image of him all slathered up with the dye, sitting around for 20 minutes, watching college football while it processes.... Ugh ugh ugh....
I myself happen to have a real weakness for silvery gray hair, but even if I didn't, all the above still applies.
I literally stand on public transit every day, and go "bad dye job, ....bad dye job...bad dye job" as I look at everyone on the train (men and women, but especially men).
So, you have tripped a wire here with me --Tell us, Patricia, what do you really think?
So, I can't say it more emphatically...be yourself, and don't dye your hair. You have earned your authority and gravitas, and this is what God has given you at this stage of life. Wear it proudly.