I am not a single mum but i have lots of friends who are, this however doesnt qualify me as an expert in raising up kids and so i have come to get feedback on an issue that i saw on Sunday.
I passed by a friend's house from church on Sunday, had not seen her three year old daughter since she was two and was looking forward. My friend lives with her sister's daughter who is 17 and almost through high school and a house help of the same age.
As we were talking, the baby girl runs over to us and tells the mum that the house help had quarreled with her boyfriend on the previous day and the guy had "sorted" her out. A term i was told meant making out.
I was speechless when my pal told the house help to avoid talking with her boyfriend near her kid.
Now, i have no idea what God has planned out for me in terms of kids but i do know that a three year old should not know more about making out than anything else.
As i was leaving the mum, my friend told the big girls to put basket ballers wives for the baby to watch!
Question: is this normal? At what point do you advise your overly sensitive friend and do you have a right to? I tried before on other issues and she thought i was being judgemental. Blessings