After almost 150 dollars and a lot of digging I finally have all my documents. I am filling for anullment. I meet with the Deacon tomorrow to complete the paperwork and send it in. I was told since I married outside the Church without dispensation it's failure to follow form and that our Diocese takes about 2-3 months for that. I cannot believe how crazy it was to hunt down all the documents needed to get this done. Gone are the days when they cost 5-10 dollars--I paid 33 dollars for one document...I couldn't believe it. Because my first husband was deceased I basically had to do two marriages. I had to get a death certificate and marrige license for that marriage and divorce decree as well. I'm exhausted and glad that this will finally be taken care of and out of my life.
I'm not in a hurry and I am, I know you understand. Not to remarry, certainly nowhere near that, but just to get on with my life and know that is behind me. Blessings to all on this journey.