Donna and the rest of you women - Have you ever considered WHY divorced (with annulments) and never married men are ust testing the water - It MAY be because of the women's attitudes, laundry lists and expectations all of which might be looked at by those men as, dare I say this without being pummelled about the head and shoulders, unreasonable!
Stephen, please don't lump me in with "the rest of the women". I never stated that divorce/annulled men and/or never married men were just testing the water. In fact, I thought it was some of the newly widowed men just testing the water (still grieving, etc.). It's never a good idea to generalize about all women or all men!