I have heard this question many times on CM. How do you feel about the question ? I think the person requires the whole package. How do you feel ?
Questions or comments... opinions perhaps ?
Let me toss a couple of cents in here...
Since my status is never married I might be way off here, but as I see it I have to be physically attracted along with the rest of the package in order to consider marriage. And even after entering Holy marriage I still have to work on keeping the flame alive as, in my view, the courtship never ends. As a man my job is to keep her feeling safe and secure with me, bring treats and gifts to my lady and not only tell her but also show her that no other woman is of interest for me. This is an ongoing job which I think is too easy to forget. As we never should take God for granted (even though He always is there) we should never take our spouse for granted.
Notice each other, touch each other, call her while being away just to tell her you love her, dance with each other. Keep doing the small things for each other. Not because you have to but because you want to. Everything you do for your spouse, you do for God.