This may be true- But if the other partner is open, it may be not as hard. It depends on how many various 'extra beliefs' the trad is asking the person to believe while they are in relationship with the traditional person. I say this with all due respect and probably should share this just privately, I suppose.
I know various Christians of all types who believe in various conspiracy theories( I have been watching some videos) and every one is another belief one can choose to believe or not. Each one complicates the goal of finding someone. I saw a video recently that believes that EWTN is the work of the devil, so there are many varied beliefs out there which are looking at everyone else with suspicion. I am not surprised- as we live in VERY unstable and scary times. But Jesus said to us "Do not be afraid."
Growing up as a child, the movies had me enamored of Traditional Catholic practices. . . .now, I would be okay dating/marrying a lady who wore dresses and skirts most of the time, if she felt it helped her spiritually, but they'd still have to be modern and in style---not the mennonite denim skirts. . . blech. I'm afraid its an hour's drive to an authorized TLM, or a little less to unauthorized, and I'm not really into the movement, as most TLM Catholics here are pro-homeschooling, etc. and I'm not into that movement at all.
It sounds like you want to be somewhat Traditional Catholic but some aspects of the fashion, are a little too much for your taste. That is understandable.. In Kansas I can imagine it blends with the culture in a certain "Prairie" way. Out here in CA I have not seen much of this style you do not like and when I see it in this state- it just does not bother me really because usually one can wear things and it looks more hippyish- (and we are supposedly so depraved in California..) due to Hollywood influences..I don't see the full prairie style - ever- in CA..
Maybe a new thread is in order. Let me know if you start one.