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Saint Eugene De Mazenod is patron of dysfunctional families & Saint Fabiola obtained a divorce from her first husband prior to devoting her life to charitable works.
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No. I have forgiven much. I will never forget how he emotionally ripped apart my daughter.
Is he expressing interest in trying it again and getting back together?
To answer your question: No. I'd say that it was our breakup that was the thing which "converted" him, so it was a good thing we weren't together anymore, and I'd be "happy" for having played a part in his conversion. Because of past experience, I would remember that the combination of our selves resulted in a particular negativeness, and despite all the changes (because I, in the meantime, have changed too), deep down we probably still will react with each other in the old way, and eventually our new selves would erode somewhat.
My first husband, today, is not the same person I married in 1972... His third wife, Joyce, has the best husband.. His second wife knocked all the fight out of him.. Since marrying Joyce he goes to church and reads his bible every day. He was a state employee his whole career so he always had a stable income. I don't think Joyce would appreciate me moving in on her man..
No. I have forgiven him but not willing to risk it again with him. When I met him he was the man for me then he changed in many ways, don't want to be a part of that again.
Possibly; I would consider it.