(Quote) Casey-637092 said:
Lets be real here!
Finding a friend here on CM is a snap if you are non judgemental , and willing to go all in with someone you are drawn to after reading their profile, viewing their Pic's and initializing or responding to the first emote or message!
The start of any relationship is a decision. Dont play games. When is the last time you read someones profile. trusted that first gut feeling, contacted them . letting them know you liked what you read and would like to devote time to loving the other , with the goal in mind of having your heart captured as well. Commit to the process,
Successful relationships are about you , not the person whom you are "looking for". Are you ready to give from your heart to find out if the person you like is who they says he/ her is in their profile.
It starts with us . The right attitude, right perspective , right heart , right goals and right spirit, make relationships a breeze, for after the initial attraction, we should enter into them with a heart of service , ready to give , ready to discover if our mate of choice , has the same heart of unselfishness.
If you want Mr/ Mrs perfect right out of the gate , you are a dreamer. Once you make a decision , from there ,you either go all in and be the friend you are looking for, or continue to sit on the fence to see what happens. Love is a decision , not a feeling and not an investment into your own future, but rather ,a daily random act of kindness to be accepting , edifying , generous and compassionate.
Decide to love ,and be happy with the person of your choice or stay on the sidelines and remain unhappy and alone. Its up to us.
Relationships are about a willingness to reach out, take calculated risks, choose to love and be receptive to the echo. Its not rocket science !
Its about unconditional acceptance without judgement , throw in a little chemistry , shake well and enjoy. What a recipe.
Soul mates are for dreamers and fairy tales! You can choose to love anyone you want,and if its reciprocal , build a life together, its just a question of how self centered and choosy we insist on being, or how selfless and life sharing we want to be.
Is it all about you getting your needs met ,or about being of service to someone else. Are you concerned about settling for less ,than whats out there? Good grief .What is better than being in love! Is one couple in love ,happier than the next . I think not . Love is built on trust and takes time to solidify, but let not this fact discourage us from reaching out in Love , to see what grows. Nothing ventured nothing gained
The sure way to crop failure is to fail to plant the seeds!
We must become what we want to attract !!! Give love a try , pleasant surprises await you!
Are you the person who watch's what happens, wonder what happens, or the person that makes it happen. Good question for all of us to ponder.
We are all the same , different only by the external wrapping paper. The gift is on the inside. That being a heart that is at peace ,content and satisfied by having its craving to give and receive love met Pretty simple really.
For it is more blessed to give than to receive. Lets truly live by this Motto! Be your own soul mate, then your ready to date !!!