Divorce? I'm so confused right now. Can someone please explain to me what this (or corinthians) has to do with not wanting to be single? [/quote Corinna, It is more about our CALLING. God calls us to follow his commandments. Some of us are called to stay single - like the old maids who never find a husband and spent their time doing ministerial work in her church; some of us are called to be mothers, to be nuns, to be priests, to be a soldier, etc... If we listen to God's calling and do not compalin about it, then we are FREE. And the calling includes everyone, black, whilte, slaves, masters, rich, poor, etc... Listen to your inner voice. God is calling you. If your calling is to be a good wife, then God will find you a man.