add an interview
almost like a facebook news feed, without posts or statuses.
An attempt at that was made on your home page (if you scroll down). People in the same age bracket as you and opposite gender show up for each type of activity that you mentioned (I think. Maybe not updated profile. I'd have to look). The issue we're trying to balance is mainly concerned with people's privacy. We would make it be your favorites list, but then that could feel very stalker-ish.
I suppose one possibility would be your main search criteria.... I would welcome a little discussion about what would be ideal and where the line of privacy is.
Thanks for the suggestion!